My mom is sensitive because she is Chinese. There are some things she doesn't seem to have done to be an American.
What happened was I was at a meeting, and I had just hurt a girl a little by how I was acting, to see what would happen when she wasn't looking then looked, through a window from downstairs. It might have been set up. I went to the meeting. We had been talking @ something else, like an issue or "problem." That's what made her seem involved, and people were testing her lazily just to jest with me-